The Echo is correct in saying returning soldiers should merit our gratitude and admiration for extreme bravery and devotion to duty in a war many consider to be contentious (June 16 and 18 ).

However, I do not believe the memories of such parades will remain with them for the rest of their lives.

Many will find burned into their memories, not the glory and triumph, but the inhumanity of incidents which cannot be erased.

One particular incident which still haunts me was during an attack on a tiny hillside village in Gemmano, Italy.

There was heavy fighting and for a brief moment the artillery stopped and I heard a terrified child scream their mother was dead: “Mama morte, mama morte.”

I barely remember the victory parades and while I am on the British Legion subscription list, I never claimed my wartime medals and never attended an Armistice parade as it arouse memories I try to forget, but without success.

W H Diment
Church Road
Laindon